by parading your sub naked down the street) breaks the SSC rule (not to mention legal ones) and therefore is a form of abuse. Even then you have to stay within the rules of whatever place you’re in.īecause strangers walking down the street – vanilla or otherwise – are not able (or might not want to) consent to see it. are the only kinds of places you can perform acts of H/D in front of other people. Places like sex clubs, BDSM gatherings, private gatherings of kinky friends, kink festivals, private property (no trespassing), etc.
I’ll also add that anything involving a “public place” can’t really be “public”!. Punishments should be clear and consistent. It should never damage a sub’s headspace, make them feel unsafe, or trigger them to past traumas. Either by better behavior or a fun time, participants should be aiming for a positive outcome. BDSM degradation and humiliation in any form should be discussed ahead of time – before any scene or interaction with a Dom and sub. Safe, Sane, and Consensual BDSM Humiliation They can be coupled in as rewards or punishments too. So as much as the coming list might sound a bit scary to beginners (or those who don’t have a kink/fetish for it) as long as it’s mutually consensual, it’s fair game.īDSM GAMES– Adding these as part of a game situation can add an extra layer of chance, anticipation, or anxiety. PLEASURE– Some people enjoy the act of humiliation or degradation. But if they hate repetitious tasks, then coupling it with a dash of humiliation can really hit home. So, if someone loves being called a slut, then it’s not going to deter the behavior. PUNISHMENTS– Correcting unwanted behavior only works if the punishment makes sense to the infraction. This could be because they enjoy the play and it’s exploration, parts of a ritual, it could be a step towards a specific goal, etc. SLAVE TRAINING – Teaching them to perform certain acts. This is another reason why communication is so important. This is a common problem in the BDSM world (grey areas around definitions). It’s also important to keep in mind that some people might not see a difference between them at all. 
However, it is possible for some acts of degradation to ALSO humiliate. Humiliation, the bottom keeps their “humanness”, degradation they don’t.
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